Discuss this with me tonight?


HEY Reader,

Are you feeling less sharp and focused than ever?

Well, I am! And I don't like it!

I’ve been feeling brain foggy, challenged in my ability to focus, and more forgetful…

…maybe it’s perimenopause (maybe it’s maybelline), but I think it’s also the inundation of so many kinds of new technology… (and maybe we are being gaslit by all these other diagnoses).

A few months ago, I picked up this incredible book called Human Being by Graham Lee.

In each chapter, Lee explores 12 vital skills we are losing to technology: Navigation, Motion, Conversation, Solitude, Reading, Writing, Art, Craft, Memory, Dreams, Thought, and Time

He details the fascinating history, how that skill contributed to our story as such a unique species on this planet, and what we are LOSING as a result of adopting technologies we don’t fully understand (and don’t have long-term studies to reveal the dangers of).

The book came into my life as I started to notice a rising surge of resistance toward new forms of technology (genAI) that are destroying our brains, bodies, and culture.

In response, I started the Reclaim Your Vital Skills project, inspired by the book.

So far, almost 50 people have already signed up!

You’re invited to our LIVE Virtual Book Discussions, starting August 5 at 7pm ET.

While many are racing to hyper-optimize their lives with tech, some of us are starting to wonder: what does it mean to stay human?

That’s what we’re exploring in 12 live FREE calls!

2026 LIVE Virtual Open Book Discussion Schedule:

August 5 - Navigation
August 12 - Motion
August 19 - Conversation
August 26 - Solitude
September 23 - Reading
September 30 - Writing
October 7 - Art
October 28 - Craft
November 4 - Memory
November 11 - Dreams
December 2 - Thought
December 9 - Time

Studies have been finding measurable declines in critical thinking, deductive reasoning, and independent judgment over the past 30 years, as a direct result of technology-use, and it is only accelerating as we offload our cognitive load to AI.

We are also seeing that those who reclaim their vital human skills will become the highest paid, highest valued, and most capable of service to life on this planet.

You can look up many of these studies like I did (that’s part of reclaiming skills, friend), and MIT Sloan’s EPOCH framework is a great starting point.

Click this link to join the Reclaim 12 Vital Human Skills Project, and we’ll send over the Zoom link (and reminders for our upcoming calls).

If you can’t make it on Aug 5th but are interested, join us anyway!

If you haven’t read the book yet, that’s ok too!

We will be sending replays of each discussion and you can join any of the upcoming calls.

→ Reclaim 12 Vital Human Skills (this link will sign you up!)

SHARE WITH YOUR HUMAN FRIENDS <3

I’ve been watching this “progress” closely for the last 2 years, tuning into my body deeply in that timespan too, and it's become very clear that we are now at a significant pivot point in history.

While some view humans as a plague on this planet, I’ve been coming home to what what we really are:

We are stewards of the land.
We are balance-keepers.
We are innovators and explorers.
We are human for a reason.

And we must reclaim the vital skills we’re losing to technology, so that we can remember our role here and regenerate the life in our soil and our souls.

This feels like a huge challenge right now with AI being shoved down our throats at every meal.

So I’m doing something about it with my partner Tyler Yenna - the bird lover (read: good listener) and curious conversationalist.

After 10 years in a relationship, and 7 as friends before that, we’ve come to realize we LOVE chatting with friends about these things.

But we struggle to keep our plans when it’s just us, haha. You too?

So we’re inviting you to join us so we actually show up to these conversations.

And we’re excited to discover what you might contribute too.

Stay human with us,

Kendra (+ Tyler)

PS. I am also hosting a live, in-person day retreat on 9/12 called Reclaim Your Voice with Sofia Dugas, global song leader, voice activation coach and friend. This event is near Harrisburg, PA.

Together we will reconnect with our voices through song, movement, journaling, time in Nature, and shared meals. The “singing wound” will be addressed and we will seek to connect more deeply with our purpose for being human in this planet in the polycrisis.

These moments of physical presence, vocal expression and sitting with our “purpose” are what we need more than ever in our modern culture. Learn more and register here (and bring a friend).

PPS. Reclaim 12 Vital Skills with us and join us for FREE LIVE calls! Forward this email, share the sign up link (here), and tell your friends to STAY HUMAN WITH US!

Just two little humans, trying to find purpose in the polycrisis -

Kendra Marie Hoffman (+ Tyler Yenna)

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